How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

Why is my coworker suddenly being so mean towards then being nice like nothing happened? She is nice with everyone but me.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I was awaken between 2-3am by a voice that said “Hey”. Literally right next to my ear. Sounded like a males voice, but it wasn’t stern or deep. What could this mean?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I stop overthinking and take action more quickly?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Have you ever had a weird experience immediately following the death of a loved one that made you think there is an afterlife and that the deceased person was communicating with you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

My girlfriend lied and said she never gave oral until me. She was very skilled. I’m upset with her lying. Do I dump her?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

As a friend of Megan's who also watches Suits, would you advise her not to return to the show in order to protect her character's reputation?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.